Crisis Survival: IMPROVE
Crisis and stress are part of life. Sometimes bad things happen and there isn't much you can do about it in the moment. The skills below can help you bear the crisis until it passes.
I — Imagery
What images help you feel calmer — real or imagined? Describe one.
M — Meaning
Is there a meaning you can find in what you're going through? Is there any good outcome that could come from it?
P — Prayer
Write your own "thank you" or gratitude prayer. List a few things you feel thankful for right now.
R — Relaxation
What helps you relax? List a few things you could do right now.
O — One-Minded
Focus on one thing at a time. What's an activity you could do to get your mind focused on something other than the stress?
V — mini-Vacation
A full vacation isn't always possible — but a small one is. Looking at the stars, drinking a coffee slowly. What's your mini-vacation?
E — Encouragement
Who encourages you? What have they said to you that stuck? And what encouraging thing can you say to yourself right now?
Radical Acceptance
Sometimes bad things happen and there isn't anything we can do about it. Refusing to accept that only adds more distress on top of the original pain. Accepting that it is what it is doesn't mean you like it — it means you stop fighting a reality that's already true.
What can you accept, even if you don't like it?
Name something real that you could stop resisting, so you can stop fighting a battle that's already decided.
Wrap-Up: Distress Tolerance Skills
- I — Imagery
- M — Meaning
- P — Prayer
- R — Relaxation
- O — One-Minded
- V — mini-Vacation
- E — Encouragement
- + Radical Acceptance